I forgot to say that I definitely decided to go to Sanford NC for a few months to be with Rob and Beata.
I'll ship my stuff to storage in Quincy, so it will be there when I re-locate. Finding a job in Quincy (for when I'm not doing disaster work) won't be easy if I'm in NC, but it can be done. At least I can set up some interviews. But I'll be rent-free for a couple of months, and that will be awesome.
Thanks, Rob and Beata, you are very kind. (And Beata, please post on your blog about your exciting meeting.)