10/31 Clarification from Red Cross

Okay. I finally know what's up. The guy (Ron) I thought was a deployment specialist is actually a temp in the Wisconsin office. He was finding out my availability, not telling me I was going. Boy oh boy, was I on the wrong track with that!

I wrote an email to the Red Cross DSHR (Disaster Services Human Resources) person (April), and she called me to clarify. And it looks like it's almost 100% sure I'll go, if I go in disaster mental health rather than public relations/communications. That is absolutely fine with me because I can hit the ground running then--I'm confident in my ability to provide sound treatment services in mental health. My training and experience are much more powerful in trauma social work than in PR. Yay.

So April put mental health as first choice and PR as second choice.

The funny thing is that they don't call you until one or two days prior to deployment, so you never know if you're going or not until immediately before. That must be hard for some very structured people. As for me, my motto is Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not get bent out of shape.

10/30 HHS Email

An email just arrived from HHS saying they need mental health specialists this week for a two week rotation. I can't accept it because I'm giving that presentation in New York next weekend. I'm sure disappointed. But I will contact Red Cross tomorrow and verify my assignment. If it's not 100% sure, then I'll contact HHS and give them my availability. I'm definitely going to go with one of those agencies.

HHS needs help in Shelter, Primary Care, and Hospital Augmentation, and said the current mental health specialists are due to rotate out.

More tomorrow on this.

10/30 Pajama Day

I loved it! Stayed in sweatpants and T-shirt all day. Didn't venture outside of my condo--although I may decide to exercise and empty my trash later. :) This was such an unusual day and I don't feel a bit guilty.

I spent most of the day watching football (poor Packers) and working on a rough outline for the NANOWRIMO work.

It was a good day.

For your viewing pleasure--here's a picture of how I looked last night at ComedySportz.

10/29 Halloween at CSz

We had great prizes for fans, but not one of them wore a costume. Odd. Many staff did, but of course we weren't eligible for the prizes. I had a good time though. I put some real thick white stuff on my face--it looked like old-timey cold cream. That, coupled with my wig, slippers, pajamas and robe, ended up making a fun costume.

I took a few pictures and will post one or two tomorrow. Right now I'm playing online poker. A great way to unwind. :) Yeah.

10/28 Work Halloween Picture

I told everyone to make a silly face on this one. I especially like the faces on the Candy Stripper (4th from left) and the Deviled Egg (far right).










It was fun. Sister Reada Thesaurus won for funniest, Deviled Egg won for most creative, and Corpse Bride won for scariest.

10/28 Panic and such

I just realized that November 1 is Tuesday. That's the day NANOWRIMO starts. I don't even have an idea for a new manuscript, much less carved out time to begin writing. Panic ensues internally.

One thing was decided. I'm putting my laptop in a backpack and taking it everywhere with me. You never know when you'll be able to take a few stolen minutes to write. (God, it almost sounds like an affair.) I'll type over lunch at my regular job, when it's a bit slow at ComedySportz, on airplanes, and at home (while reality shows blare away on the TV). And I always have my handy-dandy notebook in my purse so I can jot down notes. My laptop is big and heavy and I find I have laptop envy when I see these lightweights that still have plenty of power. All I really use it for is writing--and email when I'm in a hotel.

Okay, my panic has subsided. Now on to the "such."

Best news ever!!!! Aiden was given a clean bill of health today. What a blessing.

And today at work is just plain fun. We're having a costume contest, which I entered with no expectation of winning. (I just got a magistrate's wig and judge's robe from CSz. It looked cool, but very easy.) Lots of people put great effort in their costumes and it really paid off. We'll find out later today who won in three different categories. And our chili cook-off is still running. From 11-2 there are crockpots of wondrous smells in the conference room across from my office. And this year there were two vegetarian entries. Usually I'm the only one in that category. :) So this year I got to eat two kinds instead of just my own. There are around 15-20, I can't remember the number. People circle the table and put a bit from one crockpot, eat that, and move on to the next one. It's actually quite fun.

Tonight I work at CSz, tomorrow night too. Tomorrow night will be their Halloween celebration. I know it will be fun--I worked it last year.

10/27 Revelation

Nothing much going on except I got my hair cut. While in the chair it is my job to keep Stacy amused. She's cut my gorgeous locks for several years and thinks I'm funny. So I'm chatting away and she's laughing--both of us doing our assigned role.

Then it hit me, right in mid-anecdote. I am happy. What a neat revelation. I am happy.

I didn't think I was. So you can see why I'm excited!

I'm working at a job I love, listening to my little pink iPod mini. My kids love me, my grandkids love me. I'm a member of a huge, boisterous family, and I'm always welcome in any of my relatives' homes. My son and d-i-l are coming home from Okinawa for Christmas. I'm giving a presentation at a castle in NY next week. I'm volunteering in the gulf for two weeks in November. My health is good. And so on... (believe me there's plenty more).

Don't be jealous though. I'm still really fat.

10/26 Letter from Red Cross

But it's not the letter I've been waiting for. This one says I've been approved as a member of the DSHR (Disaster Services Human Resources). So that's cool. Then it gives me info on how to get a background check; which could get me un-approved really quickly if it doesn't turn out okay.

One more step out of the way. And November 14 is just around the corner.

Prior to that, however, is my presentation at Mohonk Mountain House. I'm so excited about that as well. It's like work wrapped in a vacation package. How cool is that! I do need to get busy on the presentation. It's only 45 minutes and I can talk about this subject for much longer than that without preparation. This presentation, though, is very special. So much work to do to prepare. November 4 is only a week and two days away.

Follow up note: Found out that my ex is fine and going home today. His heart is enlarged from a previous heart attack, but they can fix that with meds. So that's a relief. Kayla and Hunter need their granddad around. Jill is still daddy's girl, and I don't want anything to happen to make her sad. Plus, even though John and I don't have a relationship anymore, I still remember the good stuff--and don't want the young man I loved to be ill, even though he's not a young man any longer. (He's still young compared to me.)

10/25 A fun meme

Here's a meme I got from my friend Anne Frasier.

1. Take the first five novels from your bookshelf.
2. Book 1 -- first sentence.
3. Book 2 -- last sentence on page 50.
4. Book 3 -- second sentence on page 100.
5. Book 4 -- next to the last sentence on page 150.
6. Book 5 -- final sentence of the book.
7. Make the five sentences into a paragraph.
8. Feel free to "cheat" to make it a better paragraph.
9. Name your sources.
10.Post to your blog.

The only "cheat" I did was to make it into two paragraphs instead of one.

For kids at a New York City high school, a bomb scare is like an extra recess. For the North Koreans to reach this far, there would have to be a serious failure of command.

“Patty may be hurt.” PJ listened to the jumbled outpouring, held him and rocked him, murmured that everything was going to be all right, her own cheeks wet with tears. Wearing a smile of contentment, Jennifer picked up the suitcase and headed out the door.

My first two shelves of books are those by friends or authors I've at least met. The first book is by two guys I met at a writing conference. The others Cyn, Doug, Shirley, and Beth I consider friends. (And Anne, yours were just a little further down the shelf.)

Final Seconds by John Lutz and David August

Rage Sleep by C.W. Morton (Cyndy Mobley) and Jack Mobley, M.D.

The Children’s Hour by Douglas Clegg

Gray Matter by Shirley Kennett

Cold White Fury by Beth Amos

I "tag" Beth Amos, Shirley Kennett, Doug Clegg, Cyn Mobley, Brainne Edge, Jill Headen, Evan Ramsey.

10/24 Oh my, so much...

I don't know what to post first.

First of all, I'm such a dumbass and I love my bank. There was a message here when I got home saying that it was US Bank, fraud prevention. They'd noticed unusual activity on my debit card. Right away I thought this was some kind of scam (isn't it awful when that's the first thing you think of?).

Young man said, "Did you attempt to buy gas at several different stations? We have an Amoco purchase for $44 and a Citgo purchase and another Amoco purchase...."

The first one was mine. I'd gotten gas at Amoco on the way to work and LEFT MY DEBIT CARD IN THE MACHINE!! I definitely am a dumbass. Big time.

But they caught it and stopped the purchases. And put the money back into my account. I'll get my new card in a few days.

I'm so glad I didn't stop at the grocery store on the way home. That would have been embarrassing, "Sorry ma'am, but your card has been declined." I would have panicked.

Item number 2, but actually much more important: My daughter emailed that her dad (my ex) is in the hospital. He's had a heart attack before, but she said it wasn't a heart attack this time, but he was having chest pains. I sure hope he'll be okay. He and his wife have a five-year-old son, only two months older than our grand-daughter.

10/24 Decision time

I think I have too many commitments and need out of one. The items under consideration:

Working at ComedySportz part-time
Stand-up comedy class
ComedySportz Recreation League
NANOWRIMO (National Novel Writing Month) in November

With the two-week trip with the American Red Cross coming up in November, and the nuttiness of my family time during the holidays, I have to give up something. And my novel-writing has really taken a nose dive because of being so damn tired. When I get home I just plop into a chair and veg! No energy at home for writing. And I miss it a lot.

Working p-t at CSz--I don't want to give that up because it's extra spending money, but more importantly it's fun and has benefits (getting into all shows for free, discounts on certain classes, etc.).

Stand-up comedy class--don't want to give that up because it's fun and informative, and I love performing (and get good response from the audience).

CSz Rec League--I love performing every week at CSz. Nice bunch of people. It's fun and a good way to socialize.

NANOWRIMO--it's a super way to jump start a novel, but I've got one manuscript finished and two more that need to be finished. Do I need to start another?

Probably out of everything I could give up NANOWRIMO and stand-up class easier than the others. I have to think some more.

10/23 Last CSz match for the fall season

Tonight was the last Rec League match for my team (Brainstorm) for the fall season. We'll start again in January. We had such a great time tonight. My teammates (Stacy and Chris) were awesome. Here's a picture of Stacy and me playing the game...Crazy Mixed-Up Country Hijinks. I'm her Aunt Matilda (using a walker), and she's holding my cat.

There's no picture online of Chris this week, but you can glimpse him in the picture on the right, although he's mostly hidden by my broad shoulders and messy hair (hey, I'd just taken off a wig.)

The Rec League is a lot of fun and I always look forward to playing. Can't wait until next season to play again.

Until then there are the holidays, and also my trip to the gulf. I'm looking foward to receiving my deployment letter from the Red Cross so I can definitely plan the trip--and how to get my work done in my office so I can be free to go.

10/22 Wedding party & other fun stuff

Two people who work at CSz got married today. Most people went to the wedding and reception. In between the two, Dave and Amy came by CSz to have some extra pictures taken. They both looked so wonderful. Amy was a vision in her beautiful dress and veil. Dave was so handsome in his tails. It really made me smile to see them and talk to them. What a wonderful day they were having. Their entire wedding party accompanied them. I couldn't wipe the grin off my face.

Unfortunately it was really busy so I didn't get to talk too much.

The nice thing though was that the people who worked with me today were wonderful and so helpful--Amy (nope, not the one that got married), Lisa, Honni, Joe, Buddy, Elsa, and even Dick and Jen--they came in for a while. Both the cash register and the credit card machine ran out of tape at the same time. And the credit card machine was stubborn and didn't work right afterward. I still don't know what's wrong, but I finally got it to work perfectly if I left the cover off of it. So that's just what I did--left the cover off. :)

Tomorrow is Rec League and I'm looking forward to it.

There's also something else cool happening. There's a women's soccer game at Marquette between Syracuse and Florida. It was recently moved here because of the hurricane. A woman contacted Dick and said that because the Florida team wouldn't have many fans, she wanted us to go and be their fans and she'd pay. How sweet is that! And how loyal to her team! I just thought it was awesome. I was going to go, but after working so many hours, and with Rec League tomorrow, I decided I'm going to sleep in and then get some stuff done around here.

I'm tired. Yawn.

10/22 a bad ending to a stressful day

I don't want any of my pals or family commenting on this post please. Am just venting. Had a stressful 11-hour workday at CSz. But even when it's stressful it's still fun. But it ended crappily with a conversation that was hard to hear. Even worse, we couldn't complete it because customers were coming up. But I wrote it down right away so I'd remember it correctly and am transcribing it from my notes.

After someone said a comment that I thought was hurtful...

Me: Don't be mean to me.
Her: I'm not mean, but number 1, I don't feel well and number 2, you aren't one of my favorite people.
Me: I don't like you either, but I pretend in public and at work.
Her: You pretend? (smile)
Customer....
after customer...
Her: You have a full-time job, right?
Me: What does that have to do with it?
Her: You have a full-time job, right?
Me: Yes.
Her: You have insurance, right?
Me: (I may be dumb but I see where this is going.) Yes.
Her: So you don't need the money.
Me: I don't tell (the boss) to book me all the time. He just does.
Her: You don't need the money.
Me: Don't take it out on me.
Her: I'm not.
Me: Tell (the boss).
Her: I have.

Then a conversation about how she doesn't trust half of what comes out of my mouth because I distort the truth. I, of course, said I didn't. She said she speaks for others and I kept saying... Speak for yourself. That was hard for her to do, because it's a lot easier to confront someone when you can say "everybody feels this way," or "three other people" or whatever the deal is. But I'm not going to take that from anyone. If you don't like me and think I do or don't do something, then I respect you if you can tell me. But to pull that b.s. of saying you're speaking for others. Nope. I won't tolerate it. And I'm not saying she's lying, by any means. I'm sure one, two, or twelve cronies have agreed with her. That's not the point. The point is that I want to talk to grown-ups when we talk about problems or disagreements. That's the only way things can change.

I've worked there for a year and a half. And in the beginning I made so many errors. And some (many) of those errors were me thinking things were a certain way and stating that, and it turned out that it wasn't right. That wasn't distorting the truth--it was just plain being wrong. Making mistakes.

I'm always so freaking confident. Wish that weren't so. I come across as knowing absolutely what I'm saying is 100% correct, when in fact, most of the time I'm just expressing an opinion. I think that might be part of the problem.

Lying is not my style. Distorting the truth is not my style. Being wrong--well, that's sure my style sometimes.

Anyway, the conversation wasn't appropriate for work, because there was going to be a late show and customers were starting to come around. So I said we'd continue the conversation later. She nodded. Wasn't much either of us could say because there were customers about. I'll continue to be friendly at work. "Pretending." That's what being professional is about. At my regular job I don't get to be snippy with people just because they aren't my favorite folks in the world. I think the same thing applies to this part-time job.

Okay. Venting over. I'll start another note that's much more fun. (After re-reading this note, I think I sound mad. But I'm much more hurt than I am mad. And I hate that. Why would I allow someone I don't even like to hurt me? Why should her opinion even matter at all? Don't know. Maybe 'cause I'm human?)

10/21 Forgot....

I forgot to mention that Beata called me from Okinawa last night. She and Rob are doing well and very excited about their impending visit to the states for Christmas. (Me too!)

She's also started writing a book, and is committed to finishing it. I bet that Rob has already finished with his--finished writing that is, not finished with the manuscript itself. She laughed and said I was right.

Too bad. Rob's a good writer and had an exciting concept. Hope Beata is able to finish hers. She tells great stories verbally, and I bet that'll translate well to paper.

Jill called last night too and I got to talk to Kayla and Hunter. That's always a thrill for me.

10/21 Going to the Gulf?

I'm like the little boy who cried wolf, but I think it's really going to happen this time. The American Red Cross called last night and want me to go to the Gulf as a Public Affairs person. A friend (JoePRGuy) in Las Vegas turned me on to the opportunity. And I applied.

They emailed a lot of forms and I've completed almost all of them. The only one left is the Health one, and it will take a while. I'll get it done today. Everything else is sent in already.

Then today a deployment officer called me and we set a date. I said that I had a commitment the weekend of November 4th that I couldn't/didn't want to get out of (the presentation at Mohonk in New York). I also said that I'd love to volunteer over Thanksgiving--first of all, I have no plans for that holiday, and secondly we're not quite as busy here over holidays. So it looks like I'll leave November 14 for two weeks.

I took an introductory course online last night. And instead of taking the Public Affairs course, because of time constraints I'll get trained in the field. I'm also gathering other PR trainings I have from my job at CPI.

I'm very excited--except for the part where I'm taking off two weeks without pay. :) I am grateful that my company is giving me the time, that's something they don't have to do.

10/20 More writing news and other stuff

Another article has been accepted for publication. The executive editor contacted me today for clarification on a few references, but other than that it's cool. This one won't be published until February, but it's nice to know it's accepted for sure. It's called Crime Is Easy; Shakespeare Is Hard and will appear in Issue 15 Vol I of Reclaiming Children and Youth. The article is about Agnes Wilcox, who heads Prison Performing Arts, and who I worked with in producing Hamlet at a men's maximum security prison in Missouri. It was hard work, but especially rewarding. (Besides helping out a bit with production, I got to appear as Gertrude--a real treat for me.)

I'm proud of this piece. It's not scholarly writing, but it's heartfelt and one of the references I used was my personal journal. Of course, this is pre-blog.

And today I wrote to Doctors Without Borders/Médecins Sans Frontières (MSF) asking for more information. I still plan to join them in a few years, closer to retirement, and want to know which other language I should study. They ask for Spanish, French or Russian especially, although they like any language in addition to English. I guess that even though the organization originated in France, that English is the common language among the volunteers. I wouldn't mind trying to learn French or Spanish, because I took four years of Latin in high school and any Romance Language would be easier for me.

Robbie speaks English, Thai, and Chinese--and a smattering of Japanese. Beatka speaks Polish, Danish, English, Russian, a smattering of Japanese and many other languages. She doesn't claim the others because she isn't fluent. Both she and Rob are so brilliant with languages--I'd love to still have that facility. Age makes it a little more difficult. But I'm still good with languages. We'll see. (Why is it I end so many of my blog entries with that phrase?)

10/20 Great News!

In my niece Kelly's words:

Great news!! We are coming home this afternoon!! The GI team came and talked to us today. They said that usually the enterocolitis that Aiden has is associated with the Hirschsprung Disease but since the biopsy shows he doesn't have it, they aren't sure how he got that. They said it's rare to see it in babies that are full term and breastfed. They are guessing that the infection in his intestine caused the inflammation which then caused the waste to build up and start the blockage. Usually the antibiotics take care of it. He started the meds two nights ago so we will bring the rest of the antibiotics home with us to finish up and then we have to come back down next friday for a checkup. I'm guessing they will do more xrays to make sure the inflammation has all gone down. So our next hurdle is to hope and pray the antibiotics clear all this up so Aiden will be back to normal. The Dr. said there is a reasonable chance of this happening. If not, then we will have to go from there to decide what the next course of action is. Of course they told us too what signs to look for in case he would get worse so I know Todd and I will be watching him like a hawk for quite awhile. From what I've read enterocolitis can be life threatening if left untreated b/c the infection can get quite nasty and there's a chance of the intestine rupturing. Luckily we caught it early enough and are treating it early enough that Aiden didn't get too sick from it. All the drs. have told me over and over how great it was that I was breastfeeding him b/c he would have been a lot worse off if I hadn't been. Another great thing about mommy milk!! So a lot of our worries are over for now but I won't rest easy until he is completely healthy again. I feel a little guilty leaving here today knowing there are so many sweet children here with conditions far worse than Aiden's is or even could have been. We are so blessed and lucky to have the three wonderful boys we have and I will do my best never to take that for granted ever again. Thanks for all the prayers, emails and phone calls. It's heartwarming to know our family and friends care so much about us. Hope to see you all soon!! Drew and Noah.....be ready for lots of lovin'!

Love, Kelly, Todd and Aiden

10/19 Updates

Todd (Aiden's dad and not to be confused with my son-in-law Todd) called last night and we also received an email from Kelly this morning. We should hear about the results of the biopsy sometime today. And it's almost guaranteed that some sort of surgery will take place. Two options with one a lot more complicated.

I was still so down last night that I didn't go to my comedy class. But I feel better today--still very concerned, because little Aiden is going through some serious shit. I'll update when we hear about the biopsy results.

10/18 Poor little Aiden!

My tears keep falling unless I'm totally into a project. Every time I stop, then the tears re-appear. Three-week-old Aiden (my great-nephew) is in Children's Hospital in St. Louis. I'm waiting for definite word, but they think it's a bowel obstruction and he'll have to have surgery.

I'll add to the blog as soon as I hear something for sure.

Picture cuties from top left going clockwise: Noah (4), Drew (6), Aiden (3 weeks), Tyler (3 weeks), Blake (1). Noah, Drew and Aiden are brothers and Blake and Tyler are brothers.

Both new babies were on our hayride last Friday. It was such a treat to have the littlest ones with us.

10/17 Back to work!

Very busy after being gone a week. Yet, the pressure feels good. I need to be busy so I'm not missing my family so much. There are some good pictures, but I'll need to post those from home.

Good news! The EAP Digest arrived today with the article a colleague and I co-authored. It's called Dealing with Office Bullies: Developing Respect, Service, and Safety on the Job. I have permission to reprint it in our online newsletters, so will post when that happens.

Last night's Rec League at ComedySportz was really fun. My team (Brainstorm) won, which was an unusual occurence. :) We're now in 7th place out of ten teams. That's a comfortable place for me, since I'm interested in having fun and giving the audience an enjoyable (and hopefully laugh-filled) show. This picture is funny, but I shouldn't post it because it's horrible of Stacy, who is actually very cute. But I'm in process of telling her she has a giant zit on prom night, so she's in a lot of pain.

There's lots more about the Rec League and other fun info on ComedySportz.

10/16 Inevitable letdown

It has to happen. After a near-perfect vacation, coming home is mostly a letdown. On one hand, it does feel good to be in my own place. On the other, I feel incredibly sad. Saying good-bye to Jill and the kids at the airport was more heartbreaking than usual. Kayla leaned over and said, "You always cry, Grandma. I'm going to cry too. Come live with me and we won't be sad."

Now that I've had a good night's sleep I feel much better. Don't know why it gets harder to leave them each time, but it does.

I'm surely blessed to not only have wonderful children and grandchildren, but also a fun and loving extended family. This was a great way to spend my vacation time, and I got my share of hugs that should last a while.

10/15 Fun test

The kids were up late last night, so while waiting for them to wake up, I played. :)



Your IQ Is 130

Your Logical Intelligence is Below Average

Your Verbal Intelligence is Genius

Your Mathematical Intelligence is Genius

Your General Knowledge is Exceptional

A Quick and Dirty IQ Test

First of all, I resent that my logical intelligence is below average. Secondly, my IQ is higher than this. :)

10/15 Almost over

The funniest line all night was three-year-old Hunter, "My dad won't buy me toys. He says I steal."

No one knows where that came from. No matter--it's hilarious.

The hay ride was a huge success--other than the fact that my allergies are acting up a bit more this morning. :) We went about seven miles, so it was a lengthy ride. We sang tons of songs, from John Denver to nursery rhymes. There were 31 of us.

Afterward, we consumed tons of food. Beginning with the weiner roast and many many side dishes, and culminating with the s'mores. Way too much food. But the kids really enjoyed the fun (me too). The only crisis was when Kayla fell. She was running hard with her cousins and tripped on something in the dark. Took a header. Several tears later, everything was okay again.

It was hard saying good-bye to everyone. I'd live here if I could--that is if I could find a well-paying, interesting job that provides adventure, and if Quincy suddenly turned into a larger city. :) Ah well, you can't have everything.

This morning we'll have rolls from Underbrink's Bakery and we'll pack up. Guess we'll leave here around 12:30 or so for the drive to St. Louis. I've been tearing up just thinking about leaving my grandkids. We've had such a marvelous time and have gotten even closer. Didn't think that was possible. Other than Hunter's meltdowns, they behaved beautifully.

Great photos, great memories, great laughs. Lots of love.

10/14 Only one more day left

Kayla is sad. I reminded her that we leave tomorrow. She said she wants to live here. Me too. Sigh.

Yesterday Jane, Pete, Jill and Jessi went to the Ritz so Jill could have catfish done just the way she likes it. I took Kayla and Hunter to the Veterans' Home to the deer park. We saw tons of deer and other animals. Their favorite were the llamas. Their least favorite? Buffalo, "because they're stinky." We stopped at a playground on the way home. It had a climbing wall. The kids are little monkeys and were all over that thing. I took a bunch of pictures. My ex-h is a climber and builds ropes courses. So I'll send a pic to him so he knows it's time to take the kids climbing--or at least bouldering.

Last night we didn't have plans, but Jane invited Jan, Tim and Jessi for dinner. Pete made meat loaf and we had mashed potatoes, glazed carrots, and crescent rolls. Talk about your comfort food. :) Everyone enjoyed it. After folks left and the kids went to bed, Jane and I watched Survivor and ER.

Tonight we're going to Jan and Tim's for a hayride and weiner roast. Kayla's very excited because "we all get to cook our own food." This will be a first for the five-year-old. And of course we're making s'mores. Jan and Tim's place is perfect for a total family get-together. There are more than 40 of us and the only ones not going to be able to make it are the ones who live out of town--Rob, Beata, Craig, Megan, Suzie--and the ones who have to work--Jay (and his family). So we should have more than 30 of us there, which absolutely thrills me. We're leaving tomorrow and I know I'll miss the madness here.

10/13 Night adventures

My nephew (and godson) Jordan is 16 and is sleeping in a sleeping bag on the floor of the living room, where I'm sleeping on the hide-a-bed. During the night he passed gas of such ferocious intensity and duration that it not only woke me up, it scared me. I screamed. In a moment I noticed a flashlight coming down the hallway. My brother-in-law was investigating the scream. I started laughing and explained to Pete that he could go back to bed, all was well. It was merely a case of gas. :)

Before bedtime, five-year-old Kayla was brushing her teeth and I heard her raised voice. I checked, and Jordan was standing in the hallway outside the bathroom and K was berating him. Don't know what went on before, but what I heard was, "And that sink was disgusting. I'm not going to clean it out for you anymore." Omigod, it was hilarious. A five-year-old telling off a sixteen-year-old. She was very serious too. Jordan was so nonplussed that he turned and walked away, kind of giggling under his breath. I've never heard him at a loss for words before. How I wish that moment was recorded for posterity. At least it's here, so I won't forget about it immediately.

Last night we went to John and Paulette's house and the kids had a ball playing outside with their cousins. Today is going to be a quiet day (we hope) and we'll eat here tonight at Jane and Pete's. But before that, Jill needs to go to the Ritz for catfish. That's the last of her hometown food requests.

I believe I'll work on my "work work" stuff today. So much to do and it's hard going back to the office with nothing done. That overwhelmed feeling is not one I cherish.

10/12 More fun and family

Yesterday was simply great. I get up at 6 AM here because I sleep on the fold-out couch and Jane's kids get up at 6 for school. So I'm always awake early.

Jill slept in and I played with the kids in the morning. At noon we went to McDonald's, only because Jane had promised the kids they could go on the playground there. Then we went to the mall and got presents for Noah's birthday party. Hunter had a meltdown in a toy store--usually he only does that when he's very tired. But he recuperated quickly.

Bonkers was really really really really really really fun. It's so much better than Chuck E. Cheese. In fact, Kayla asked if she could go there on her birthday. A bit of a commute, but I'd love it.

Imagine the nice little climbing apparatus that you notice at McDonald's as you drive by. Well, multiply that by 20. Only it's not made of plastic, it's all netting and straps. You can see the kids at all times--that is if you can follow them as they scamper about. Adults are allowed to play with their kids too. So I went in. Omigod it was a riot. I'm all stiff today because many times you have to crawl on your belly or your knees because of little tunnels that exist. But it's worth it. Noah had a wonderful birthday. Kayla and Hunter had such fun. And we adults got to hold Aidan and Tyler. An all-around good day.

When we got back to Jane and Pete's it was already after 8--K and H's normal bedtime. They stayed awake until 9:30 so I expected them to sleep late today. Hunter is still sawing zzzz's, but Kayla woke up with cousin Sarah's alarm. Sarah said, "Go in on the couch with Grandma." Instead of coming to me, K went into the couch in the family room (I'm in the living room). She saw Uncle Pete asleep in the recliner and she climbed on him. I just took a picture of it. It is adorable.

Tonight we're going to my brother and s-i-l's house (John and Paulette). The best pizza place in town has two for one on Wednesdays. So Jane is buying, but we're eating at J and P's so the kids can make more noise than in the restaurant. (Okay, so I can make more noise too.)

10/10 I'm fat and happy

Eating so much here. Ugggh. But other than that I'm happy.

I'm so totally enjoying myself here in Bozarth-land. We had 20 last night at dinner (at Gem City Pizza and Mexican) and that wasn't half of us. Today we played in the park, lunched with other family members, enjoyed two babies--one 15 days old and one 11 days old--Aidan and Tyler. What a great day.

Tonight we were at Jan and Tim's home. Kayla drove the tractor with Uncle Tim and had the time of her life. We're going back there Friday evening for a hayride and we're all excited. The entire family is invited. We'll see how many can make it. Tonight they cooked brats and we drank beer. Of course I had a veggie burger. Then out came the wine and the appletinis for those not driving. I had one beer early on and that was that. But I still had my share of laughing. The little ones were hilarious. We sang lots of kid songs and Hunter got stuck on the word Paddywhack. He kept calling my sister Jane, Aunt Paddywhack Jane. Then would burst into the most beautiful laughter.

I'm loving this.

10/9 Tired but grinning

It's not even 8 PM and I'm ready for bed. :) Got up much too early after not enough sleep. But it's well worth it. I'm at my sister and b-i-l's house. We just returned from Gem City Pizza and Mexican. There were 20 of us there and that's not even 1/2 the family. What fun! It took Kayla and Hunter a few minutes of pretending to be shy and then they went to everyone--hugging and kissing. Hunter found that his cousins Blake and Riley are just the right size. And when he sees Noah that will be a fourth in the "gang." Kayla just loves having so many cousins too. And of course Jill was in hog heaven, eating her favorite nachos and seeing a lot of her family.

After meeting them at the St. Louis airport, Jane and Jordan drove us to Quincy. The trip was peaceful and wonderful--UNTIL--right before arriving in Quincy Kayla and Hunter both fell asleep and when we stopped they woke up. No problem with K but H went ballistic, a nuclear meltdown. He cried until he vomited. Everywhere. So we dropped Jill and H at Jane's house so he could get cleaned up. By the time they joined the rest of us at Gem City, he was not only clean, he was his usual jovial self. Whew!

It was a wonderful and delicious time. Now the kids are winding down--both Jordan and Sarah have school tomorrow. But Jill, Jane and I are ON VACATION!!! Yeah.

10/8 Packing for Quincy

Whew! I'm tired. Worked at CSz Thursday, Friday and Saturday...but just had to do the matinee today. I'm glad because I have so much work to do to prepare to leave tomorrow. Had a nice crowd at CSz this afternoon, bunches of kids' birthday parties and a big group of ladies from The Red Hat Society (they wear purple clothes and big red hats). They sure had a good time too.

Some of my friends were moved up to the pros and had their debut performance this weekend. I'm so proud of them. Funny, funny people.

I had my own private miracle. My dryer works again. This morning I was tumbling some clothes, just to get the wrinkles out before I hung them up to dry. Suddenly the dryer belched this huge noise and shook like it was an earthquake. I went to get my clothes a few minutes later and they were dryer. I swear I cried--it's such a wonderful gift to have the dryer working when I'm packing for a trip. Hope it lasts a few more months and then I can get a new one.

Okay...lots of packing to do.

10/7 Writing, etc.

Taking a quick break from work to eat and blog simultaneously. It's difficult but possible. (Oops, dribbled some soup down my chin.)

I'm thinking of joining NANWRIMO again this year. It stands for National Novel Writing Month. During November thousands of people attempt to write a novel. Two years ago I completed the required number of words--50,000 and immediately cut about 30,000 of them. They were absolute crap.

But I do love the thought of being forced to sit my butt down and write. During the last year I've filled my life with other things and have neglected my fiction writing. I do miss it, and maybe just need a jumpstart.

Last year I was a miserable failure at NANOWRIMO, but at least I started. This year, I just can't decide whether or not to do it. I'll join up, but come November 1 I don't know if I'll dive in or not. We'll see.

10/6 More on today

Staying busy, but accomplishing a lot today. Am working tonight at CSz and tomorrow night and Saturday afternoon. Lots of work. That's good. Then Sunday off on vacation for a week. Yay.

10/6 My humor style

the Ham

(19% dark, 61% spontaneous, 26% vulgar) your humor style:
CLEAN | SPONTANEOUS | LIGHT

Your style's goofy, innocent and feel-good. Perfect for parties and for the dads who chaperone them. You can actually get away with corny jokes, and I bet your sense of humor is a guilty pleasure for your friends. People of your type are often the most approachable and popular people in their circle. Your simple & silly good-naturedness is immediately recognizable, and it sets you apart in this sarcastic world.

PEOPLE LIKE YOU: Will Ferrell - Will Smith


The 3-Variable Funny Test!
- it rules -
If you liked my test, send it to your friends!

The 3 Variable Funny Test
http://www.okcupid.com/tests/take?testid=17565214125862764376

I took the above silly test. It's pretty accurate for my sense of humor. Spontaneous and light with a hint of vulgarity. Yep, that's me.

10/5 Have to hurry

Have to hurry and get back to work. So much to do that my head is spinning. I really need someone to assist me, so I can do a GREAT job at publishing everything. There are so many periodicals (both hardcopy and online), plus keeping the website updated that it just boggles my feeble little mind. I love this stuff, but I do need help. It's awful if something turns out mediocre simply because of time.

Sometimes I wish this were a private blog so I could say things I really want to say, instead of being so damn nice all the time. Yuck.

Things aren't that bad, but I really want to bitch about something, and can't. Arrggghhhh. It's hard keeping my mouth shut. But I will.

Good things--last night was fun at Stand Up class. My routine is getting better and better, not to mention longer and longer. So far I don't think I'll have a problem with memorizing all the new stuff. Should be fun, in fact.

Reality TV: Tonight is the final for So you think you can dance? I'm looking forward to seeing the finale. I'm rooting for Nick.

10/4 Talked to grandkids

It was fun. Hunter said he was going to take his motorcycle on the airplane, but "it was really dirty, and it was muddy in the front wheel and in the back wheel it was really dirty so maybe I won't go on the airplane 'cause it goes really fast and makes a lot of noise and maybe I'll go again when I'm a big boy. I'll wash my motorcycle then and take it with me but right now I can't because there's mud on it.

"Oh, we're coming on an airplane to see you?

"Okay, I'll wash my motorcycle so I can take it on the airplane. Love you, Grandma, bye." Sounds of him kissing the phone.

Kayla said she's taking one of the dress up dresses with her, so she can play Princess in Quincy. She thinks her cousin Sarah will have fun with that too. (Sarah is 14, Kayla is 5. Both are adorable.)

I can't wait to see Jill and the kids.

But before that I have tons of work to do, so back at it.

10/3 Writing, editing and comedy

I love all three of the above. I do the first two for my job, and also for fun.

Today, besides attending various meetings, I have to edit two journals, and publish two online newsletters. As if that weren't enough, I have to write some press releases. At least I don't have any articles to write at the moment.

Which leads me to personal rather than work--I love writing and editing outside of my job, but it's hard to find the time. With one 50 hour a week job and two part-time ones, it's not easy. I'm not doing a good job of writing (and memorizing) my expanded comedy routine.

I think it would be easier to do that if I had wireless access in my place, or at least was able to re-arrange my desk. It's a crummy one. There's no room to have papers at the side of my monitor, just room for the monitor and keyboard (and stacks of "stuff"). I have an idea on how to reorganize my huge bedroom to accommodate a different desk, but I don't have the money at the moment. (Need to buy a new dryer instead.)

10/2 Rec League

Tonight was a lot of fun. Except--we had to forfeit because Howard didn't show up. Stacy is in Chicago playing at Second City tonight, so we knew the other three of us had to be there. I called H at 4:45 to ask where he was because our match started at 5. He said he lost track of the time and it would take him 30 minutes to get there. I said, okay, come on and we'll try to stall everyone. What we ended up doing was have someone "temporarily play the part of Howard." But Dave had to take Howard's place because H never did make it. He didn't call either. So we forfeited. (Editing to add: Howard emailed that he came in, saw that we had a substitute, and left. That's sad. He could have played after all. Well, at least we know this won't happen again.)

We still got to play though. And boy, we rocked! I loved playing with Dave...he's a great guy and so funny. Just got moved up to the pros. And he really deserves it. Chris and I did well too, I think.

All in all, it was fun. The audience enjoyed it too. So that's a happy ending--even though we didn't get any points.

10/1 It's fall

I love fall. No air conditioning, no heat. Just open windows and cool, cool air. Lovely.

I was supposed to work at ComedySportz today from noon until 11. But I got called in last night because someone didn't show up--for the second night in a row. So I worked until 10:30 PM and called someone else to come in tonight. I'll go in at noon and work until 5, working the matinee. I do so enjoy working when the kids are there for birthday parties. It's loud and chaotic. Just like being with my family. :)

9/30 Musings

Two new great-nephews to hold when I get to Quincy. Our family continues to grow and it's a blessing. We all are crazy about kids.

When Jill, Kayla, and Hunter arrive (and me), we're going straight to Gem City Pizza and Mexican (what a fun name). Jill is craving their nachos. A lot of the family will meet us there so K and H can get used to everyone again--over pizza.

And the big news of Rob and Beata coming home for Christmas. I get misty every time I think about it. Even though they may not move back by then, they're going to be here for Christmas. The family will be ecstatic. Meeting Beatka is a trip. She's adorable. And of course, so is my son. :) Above is a picture from when they renewed their vows at Waikiki.

On the right is Rob at the Samoan Village at the Polynesian Cultural Center. He said one of the guys could have been his brother, they look so much alike.

Can't wait to see them.

But first, my Jill and grandkids on the 9th. Just 9 days away. I'm a lucky bug.

9/29 Home...

I had a super time in NYC, although we worked very hard. However, as usual, it feels great to be home again. I love coming back to my little cozy condo.

While I was gone, two of my nieces gave birth, so now I have two more great-nephews. Can't wait to meet them in 10 days when I go to Quincy with Jill and the grandkids. Yay.

9/27 Tired

Working hard. I love NY and wish there were more time to do fun things. Luckily this job involves traveling around Brooklyn a lot. Fascinating. My first time in this borough.

The people I'm working with are such fun. There are six of us and I like everyone. Lots of laughing through the hard work.

I turned on word verification. In order to post a comment you have to prove you're a human instead of a robot. Weird, huh? But I'm sick and tired of the comment spam left by non-humans. After a few days of this I'll turn it off again and see what happens.

9/26 What fun!!

Yesterday we worked in the afternoon at the agency, reading files. Then last night we (five out of six surveyors, and five of my friends) went to CSz. They were performing at the Improv. We ten were the only ones there until 2 or 3 others came in. But we enjoyed the show. It was fun seeing Caprice, Stephanie, and Rory again.

Afterward we went to Hell's Kitchen. That's the area of NYC where West Side Story was filmed. But it's getting pretty darn trendy. DF recommended this Chinese restaurant. It was absolutely delicious. Imagine 10 of us eating family style. Great fun. And D's wife is Chinese Canadian...he said she would approve of the place. High praise indeed.

We took the subway back to the hotel. I was tired by then. But D walked all the way back and even stopped at the Festival of San Gennaro. What energy. Those Canadians. :)

This morning we met at 8 AM and took a van to the agency in Brooklyn. We worked hard all day, at least when we weren't eating. Oh my, they fed us--way too well. By 6 we were ready to go though. And we walked down the promenade to Grimmaldi's for dinner. A great pizza place recommended again by DF. He is 2 for 2. I called him and asked him for a recommendation for tomorrow night--we want it close to the hotel, inexpensive and delicious. I don't think that's too much to ask do you?

Lots of work to do, but I'm sure enjoying the company, and the food. And found out that I could borrow a wireless card from the front desk, so I'm happily typing from my room instead of at the public computer in the club room. Yay!

9/25 Games Gang

I took the subway to Penn Station and met DF about 2 PM. We took the LIRR to Valley Stream to Glo and Lar's house, a lovely home I've been to several times. We played countless games (with Monk and Neal too, five of us). Glo wanted to try them out for Words Weekend (in November at Mohonk). She's also writing a review of new games for Games Magazine where she's a contributing editor.

At some point we went to Itgen's for dinner. The food was okay but the ice cream was top-rate. They make it there and YUM!!

We took the 11:04 PM train back to Manhattan. While on the train, my sisters called me. The were a bit inebriated (a bit?) and we had a hilarious conversation.

DF walked me to my subway platform and then left for his. It was about 11:40. I waited until a little after 12 before a downtown-headed A train came.

I got home at 12:20 or so this morning and got on this computer in the Club Room to check my email before bed. It was a long day--4 AM-1:30 AM. Yikes.

But I slept until 9:30 AM--a good 8 hours. After showering this morning I walked the quarter block to Wall Street and got coffee at Starbuck's. Ground Zero is only a block or so down Wall Street. I'll go there soon.

At 1 PM today I'll meet with my five colleagues (from all over US and Canada) and we'll go to Brooklyn to begin our study of the agency. At 6 PM nine of us (colleagues and friends) will go to CSz and then dinner afterwards. Looking forward to that a lot. (Sorry for typos, I'm in a hurry.)

9/24 Too tired

Too tired to post tonight. Just got in from being with friends and I'm tired, after only 3 or 4 hours sleep last night. Am on a shared computer in the lobby. Will write more tomorrow. G'night.

9/24 New York City

Writing part of this while waiting to meet DF at Penn Station--

Found a lot of words that I developed to describe myself when I was in Hollywood and attended a Sam Bennett workshop. We learned to change those negative thoughts into positive ones. I'm easily bored and adventurous; never met a stranger; non-judgmental; quick-wittedly goofy; insatiably curious; good-hearted; a word lover; and needy. We couldn't come up with the "good" side of needy. But I'll work on it. :)

While fly to LaGuardia today, I sat by a pilot. I was trying to write more bits for my comedy act; told him I wanted to add more about travel. He said he'd think of something. But immediately all these ideas hit me and I started spouting off incident after incident that happened in UK and Europe. All I have to do now is change them to "set up and punch."

DF and I will take the LIRR to Valley Stream to play word games with other writer friends. To some of you that may sound boring as hell. But to "word nerds" it's a slice of heaven. And to play against people who actually can beat you. Wow. As one of my brothers used to say, "No brag, just fact." I'm good at word games and usually win--but not with this group. I'm certainly one of the winners, but so is everyone else at the table. Love that.

My hotel is very European, like a boutique hotel. I love it.

9/23 Reality

I’m a reality show freak, as confessed many times. When I’m feeling particularly good about myself I say I’m a student of popular culture. Sounds better. (Thanks for the phrase, DF.)

What is the voyeuristic tendency in me? Or is it merely the joy in feeling superior to some jerks on TV? I don’t know, but reality shows absolutely fascinate me. And it’s not just the network ones like Survivor, Big Brother, Bachelor/Bachelorette, Amazing Race (my favorite on networks), Endurance (kids’ version of Survivor on Saturday mornings) and the Apprentice(s). Nope, it’s the trashy ones too, like Surreal Life (my favorite on cable), Celebrity Fit Club, The Firm (went from network to cable), Kill Reality (mercifully over now), Reality Show (with Andy Dick who I think is one), and there are even more. Some of the above aren’t on right now of course, but weave in and out of the TV schedule.

Normally, I couldn’t watch that much TV, but with the advent of DVR (digital video recorder), I can record two things at once in my living room, and two more in my bedroom. Can’t remember the last time I watched something when it was actually on (except for the Today Show as I get ready for work). Being able to skip commercials and fluff makes each show a lot shorter. Regular hour shows become 40 minutes sans commercials. And when you fast forward through the recaps and other redundancies, I can watch an hour show in 30 minutes.

I’ve not seen Real Life or Road Rules, and am trying to stay away from them. Don’t need any more…

There are still other shows on the schedule. Besides reality shows I’m enamored of sci-fi series too. Stargate SG-1 remains my favorite TV show although I miss MacGyver on it. Then there’s Stargate Atlantis, Dead Zone and Battlestar Galactica. And the networks have the audacity to add several more sci-fi fantasy shows to cash in on the success of Lost (another fav). So I’m checking them out and almost hoping some get cancelled.

You might wonder if I have a life outside of my fantasy one watching TV. Actually I do. I work two (and sometimes three) jobs. I take comedy classes, both improv and stand-up. I perform in a Comedy League on Sundays. And I go out to lunch with friends, and travel a lot. It’s just that when I’m home, the TV is always on. When you live alone and like noise, it’s either TV or CDs.

At work I have my iPod going, or music from my computer. Maybe it stems from being one of nine kids. There was never a quiet moment.

When I meditate there’s silence. But that’s it.

9/22 Pete's Pond

Pete’s Pond in Botswana is an absolutely fascinating place. You can travel there as easily as I do. Merely click on the above link and become a voyeur at a popular watering hole in Africa.

Apparently it’s become so popular that sometimes the site is busy. But it’s worth it to try again. National Geographic rocks when it comes to something like this.

Last night was good. I was able to help out a little at a fundraiser at CSz with all the proceeds going to Gilda’s Place. Ultra cool. And I bought a great T-shirt. Black with white lettering. On the front it says Cancer Sucks and on the back it says Fight. It was designed by Christine Capriolo’s art students. She’s one of the professional players at CSz.

Speaking of that, five people got promoted from the Rec League (where I play) to the pro ranks. I’m so happy for them. Out of the five, I know four of them pretty well, and it’s great to see their promotion.

Then when I got home I received a call from H, who is joining Brainstorm, the Rec League team I’m on. He sounds great, and I’ve heard he’s funny. So I’m pleased… I can leave town without worry. You have to have three or four to play. S and C could have gotten a sub in my absence, but this is much better. A real teammate. We will actually become accustomed to performing together. Much better than using subs.

9/21 Stand up, I said

Had a good initial class last night. There were six of us there and two others who'll be there next week.

Before I went I added this whole section about dating my stalker. It's pretty darn funny and went over well. Just have to tighten it up--set up and punch is what it's called.

Tonight is a benefit at CSz. I volunteered to work in the Box Office.

9/20 Hurricane(s), etc.

HHS's website now says:

At this time, the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) is NO longer accepting individual medical and relief worker applications. More than 33,000 health care professionals and relief personnel have registered with the Department of Health and Human Services for possible deployment in affected areas.

I'm one of the "more than 33,000." Elsewhere on the website it says:

The vast pool of applicants should allow us to meet the needs in the affected areas. The recovery effort will be long and the current pool of volunteers will be used over the next several months. We ask those who have registered on this site to please be patient as we continue to deploy workers where they will be most helpful. We will be contacting those who meet the requirements and needs in the field as soon as we are able.

Guess this will work out well for me. If called, it will be October or after, just what I'd hoped. And there's only one MUST for me in November--I'm giving a talk at Mohonk that I can't/won't miss. That's only for a long weekend. Other than that, I can go. My boss asked me this morning about the request I'm supposed to write for her to give to the CEO. Don't know why I haven't done it yet. This volunteering is so important to me; maybe I'm scared they'll say no. That's such a small chance that it shouldn't worry me. Maybe it's because my desk is piled with incomplete projects that I need to finish. Dunno.

I'm just glad that I'll be able to serve. (Fingers crossed.) And now that Rita is a Category 2 already, who knows what's going to happen in the Gulf. It's just sad.

9/20 Here and gone

A staff member was here one minute and gone the next. Official word is that she's off to pursue other options. But what if she were abducted by aliens.

I already wrote about being addicted to reality shows, but I must admit I'm hooked on sci-fi too. In fact, I LOVE it. And if it can happen on the 4400, it could happen in real life.

Or maybe I'm confusing reality shows with un-reality shows.

Well, there's no TV tonight anyway. It's the first meeting of the Advanced Stand-Up Comedy class I'm taking. That's kind of sci-fi in it's own way.

9/19 I like lunch

Going out for lunch is nice. It's a great break to the routine of the work-day. Today I had lunch with my friend, T-man. We have lunch every few months or so. T-man has a job similar to mine, only for a fairly-prestigious college.

We met at Heinemann's, one of Milwaukee's staples. I love these restaurants because they're always non-smoking, and they have vegetarian choices for me.

T and I always have a talkfest when we get together. We met through CSz, but he didn't stay long enough to get "hooked" like I have. Then we were in a writing critique group. It was great, but we stopped when I moved to the UK last year. He's about 20 years younger than I am, so we're very safe friends and can talk about anything with each other, which is fun.

He is just about done with his non-fiction book. I'm going to look it over before it gets sent out. I love doing that for friends. Plus every time I'm in the acknowledgments it helps me. When I retire, one of the things I want to market is my editing ability. Right now I've edited several books and can put them on my Editing Resume--assuming I ever develop one. :)

9/18 Trading Spaces

I stayed awake way too late last night. One of the things I did after getting home late from CSz was watch Trading Spaces which I'd taped. The title of the episode was Father and Son Have Different Taste. The title itself made me laugh. The two couples live across the street from each other. Dad and step-mom are landlords for son and d-i-l. Three of the four people work at CSz. So it was so much fun to see TS come to Milwaukee and to showcase people we know.

Dad is Bob Orvis, one of the founding members of CSz. He is now the manager of all the remote shows. He and his wife Lisa redid a room for Jayke and Mandy Orvis. Jayke is a welder, but also works as Mr. Voice for CSz. Mandy is the office manager. Bob and Lisa are straight-looking. And Jayke and Mandy are metal-heads. They have tons of tattoos, fun hair, and love the macabre. Hildy helped Bob and Lisa make over Jayke/Mandy's kitchen into a horror filled, 50's diner. Just want Mandy wanted. They absolutely LOVED it.

9/17 Worked hard

So busy tonight at CSz. The 7:30 show was sold out (about 180) and the 10 show had about 100 people. I earned my money tonight. Dick stayed to help out with the 7:30 show...answered the phone and took reservations while I dealt with the crowd picking up their tickets, and the groups of 20 or 30 who wanted to pay individually. The 10 didn't look all that busy when he left, but we had tons of walk-ins. And in the middle of it all someone came in to buy a gift certificate--and the stupid printer wouldn't work. We had to just write one out and that will probably mess with the bookkeeping.

Then one of the bachelorette parties took an inordinate amount of time because they thought "it was stupid" that they couldn't wear condoms on their heads and carry in penis toys. I reminded them it was a family friendly show, and one of them said, "That's really stupid. Kids should be in bed." I said that some adults appreciate we're a family friendly show as well. There was a woman standing there with another bachelorette party (her daughter's) and she nodded. Later she thanked me for saying something.

When Dick first told me I had to gather all the inappropriate items and keep them behind the counter or ask the person to take them to his/her car, I thought it would be no big deal. But almost everything is a big deal when someone is drunk. (Not me, the customer.) Most people are nice and tend to understand. The bride in question tonight did. She kept saying, "It's no big deal."

But I really deserved my free after-shift drink tonight.

9/16 Another meme

The Describe Yourself in Song Meme:

Rules are as follows: Choose one band and answer the following questions about yourself only using titles from that band's catalog of songs...without repeating songs OR the band of the person who did this ahead of you...

Here's mine:

Artist/band: Beatles
Are you male or female: Tell me what you see
Describe yourself: Getting better
How do some people feel about you: Wait...
How do you feel about yourself: I feel fine
Describe where you want to be: The long and winding road
Describe what you want to be: Paperback writer
Describe how you live: Eight days a week
Describe how you love: Hello goodbye
Share a few words of wisdom: We can work it out

The hardest part for me was leaving some good titles out. Under male or female it would be easy to put GIRL--one of my favorite Beatle songs, but I thought the other title was funnier.

Try it. Jer

9/16 What am I doing?

What am I doing?

Spending all my money on travel, that’s what. Even though some trips are business-related and I don’t have to pay for the big things (travel and hotel, for example), trips are still expensive. And, of course, some trips are personal, so I do have to pay for anything.

I absolutely love traveling. It feeds my need for adventure. Staying in one place all the time bores me silly. Yet some people close to me don’t want to leave their hometown. They’re perfectly content. I bet they actually save money. Wish I had that habit.

But the habit I do have, the addiction I do have, must be satisfied. So I travel.

A week from tomorrow I’m in NYC for six days. Ten days after returning home I leave for Quincy for a week. And a month after that I’m in Mohonk in NY state. No international travel this year (yet). And all my vacation time will be gone once Christmas is here. But PTO (personal time off) is to be used. I’m just lucky I don’t get sick and have to take PTO for that. PTO is like a precious gift to me—only to be used on things that make me smile.

Last year I took a day off for a cousin’s death. And even though the occasion was sad, it was still a time of smiles and laughter. My extended family is so cool, and so weird, ya gotta love them.

A friend just emailed and said, “Seems like you don’t hold still longer than a minute.” I don’t appear hyper in a micro sense, but in a macro sense I sure am. I think that’s one reason I’m really good at trauma work. It certainly causes an adrenaline rush, but in the meantime I’m really helping people.

9-15 More on hurricanes

I emailed HHS to find out when I’d be notified about deployment. In the email I mentioned that I couldn’t go until mid-October because of work commitments and the return email from HHS said, “Due to the amazing response of interested applicants, we will be notifying only those that are being deployed at this moment. We are working hard to deploy those who receive federal appointments to the disaster areas as fast as we can, and will notify potential appointees as soon as possible. Thank you for your continued willingness to serve.”

That sounds like three things: 1. There are many volunteers, which is super. 2. They’re only notifying those who are able to go immediately. 3. And I assume it means I can still be used later.

So my adrenaline is down and I’ll be able to remove the mobile phone which has been surgically attached to my body.

9/14 Windy Wisconsin

Last night Wisconsin rivaled coastal areas hit by hurricanes. We experienced hurricane-force winds and it was really something to see. I tried to leave work about 6 last night, then looked outside and noticed the trees being thrown about and bent over. The rain was completely horizontal at times. Fascinating and I couldn’t stop looking. When I finally was able to leave the building the rain was still pounding down, but the wind had died a bit. The radio said there were many measurements of 70 and 75 mph gusts and one 80 mph gust was reported. Hurricane winds begin at 74 mph.

One guy was killed when he accidentally came in contact with a downed wire. Very sad. But I think we’re so lucky there was only one death.

9/13 Ten dinner guests

In my writing group someone asked an old question, about the ten people you would invite to dinner. They can be living or dead. I found it difficult, so just did it off the top of my head rather than thinking hard about it. Here's my answer:

I need two dinners. The first one would be my 10 favorite people in the world, my eight brothers and sisters and my two kids. And I'd sneak in the two grandkids.

The second would be:

1. Thomas Jefferson--I want to find out what the founding fathers really meant in the Bill of Rights and Constitution. Then I'd come back and kick some butt politically.

2. Jesus Christ--to judge for myself. And to find out if he really wanted us to keep making rules that on the surface seem a bit silly to me (not all, but some).

3. Gregory Peck--when I read the article written by Scout (forgot her real name--oh, yeah, Mary Badham) I wished I'd known him. He sounds like a good kind man.

4. My childhood self--I want to see the innocence and hope and recapture some of it. I also want to warn myself about my faults--that they're harder to get rid of when you're a grown-up.

5. My mom as a teenager or when she was engaged--She had such a hard life as a married woman and mother. I'd love to see that spark in her eyes all the time. Through her adult life we saw the spark, but I just know that she had it constantly as a youngster. She was adored by her family, the youngest of 8 kids. And her friends still talk to us kids about how wonderful she was.

6. St. Catherine of Sienna--She apparently was a hoot. I'd love to meet this mystic with a sense of humor. She even joked with God. "If this is the way you treat friends, is it any wonder you have so few?" (I'm sure those words aren't exact, but they're pretty close.)

7. Julian of Norwich--another female mystic who fascinates me. She is the author of one of my favorite mantras, "All will be well, and all will be well, and every manner of thing shall be well." I love the sentiment, and it echoes my own Pollyanna take on life.

8. Mary Chapin Carpenter--I love her music passionately. And her words fascinate me. Would just like to meet her and have dinner with her.

9. Paul (forgot his last name, I'll come and fix this when I remember)--he dropped the bomb on Hiroshima and until the day he died thought it was the right thing to do. He's from my hometown, Quincy Illinois, and I want to talk to him. I'm thinking the only way he could live with himself was to remain firmly convinced it was moral and right. I mean, how could you stand to think of what you'd done if you eventually thought it was wrong?

10. Miss Dorothy Haxel/Sr. Rose Veronica--She was my kindergarten teacher and loved me. I loved her too. She ended up becoming a nun, and we were friends as adults. We lost track during the 90s when I left Quincy, and I imagine she's deceased now. But what a great self-esteem builder she was. (Can I blame her for my cockiness?)

Okay, I'm now ready to start another list of 10. I knew this would be hard. Jer

9/13 Waiting and working

I know it will take a while for HHS to check out my credentials, etc., but I'm hoping they contact me soon. Even though I won't be available to go until October, I still want to get started on the shots and other stuff I need prior to deployment.

Lots going on at work. So much to do, and I love it.

Spoke to my boss about the HHS volunteer bit, and she doesn't think there will be a problem. I'm going to write up the request formally and give it to her. She'll give it to the CEO for authorization. That was a relief. Don't know why it was hard to ask, but it was. She's really nice to me, so there wasn't anything to be scared of, but it felt like I was asking for a lot--two weeks unpaid leave.

I'm going to NYC next Saturday (24th). I'll be staying in lower Manhattan near the Brooklyn Bridge, but will be working in Brooklyn. Can't wait to see my NY friends. We're gathering for a Games Gang fun day. And DF will most likely go to see the NYC ComedySportz with me that Sunday night. Should be a great time.

My work begins Sunday afternoon and there will be mostly 10-12 hour days Monday, Tuesay and Wednesday. We'll finish up on Thursday and I'll fly home that night.

I love New York.

Gotta run. Lots to do.

9/12 Update

Important stuff first--we sucked last night at Rec League. It didn't feel that way, but the score we received sure showed it. Only place to go is UP!!!

Really important stuff second--I faxed in all the documents today to HHS.

The website is very thorough and gives a list of everything you need to bring for a "rigorous deployment." It also notes that the CDC says to get tetanus shots up-to-date and to begin hepititus B shots prior to deployment. I think I'll wait on that until I find out if they want me.

And I've decided to just borrow the money I'll lose while gone. It's enough if my company gives me the time off without pay, I'm not going to take advantage of them by asking them to provide my salary too. (Although a friend told me that Disney is paying salaries for their employees who volunteer. I have new respect for that company.)

I'm nervous, but am so excited that I might actually be able to help.

9/12 Update

Important stuff first--we sucked last night at Rec League. It didn't feel that way, but the score we received sure showed it. Only place to go is UP!!!

Really important stuff second--I faxed in all the documents today to HHS.

The website is very thorough and gives a list of everything you need to bring for a "rigorous deployment." It also notes that the CDC says to get tetanus shots up-to-date and to begin hepititus B shots prior to deployment. I think I'll wait on that until I find out if they want me.

9/11 Interesting email

Wow. On the 4th anniversary of 9/11 I'm thinking about that, while watching football and praying my fantasy team wins. What superficial fluff--but it's a fun part of my life.

And I'm getting ready to go to CSz to play in the Rec League. This is my team's first match in this season. Not so superficial fluff, laughter is something that we can't live without.

About one minute ago I got an email from the feds (HHS) saying I may be deployed. I hope I can set the dates for my volunteer work so other things can still get done in my life. (Not talking about CSz--my team will do fine, or better, without me.) I am scheduled to go to NYC for a COA site review in two weeks, and I can't miss that. And there's a week in October when Jill and the grandkids will be in Quincy--I've scheduled a vacation week for then. My family is the only thing more important to me than doing this work. If I have to miss the COA site review, then I will and I know COA will understand. They're a human service organization.

I'm not opening the documents attached to the email until after my CSz match. Oh God I hope it's not immediate. But if it is, I'll go and make adjustments in my professional life.

I lied...opened the documents right away. Couldn't stop myself. It says up to a month, with a possible extension of a month. That's not possible. I need to earn money and this is as an unpaid federal employee, volunteer work. Which is fine. But I can't do it that long. The website I saw said for two weeks, and I can make that happen. (May have to borrow money to pay my bills, but that's okay.)

I'm sure they'll do it for two weeks, and if the need is still there during the holidays, I can go back. We'll see. (I say that a lot, don't I?)

9/10 Fun at work

I really enjoy working at CSz, and hanging out there as well. Wish I could be as funny on stage as I am behind the counter in the box office. Customers are always asking me if I'm playing in the match they're going to watch. Then of course I say, "No, I'm not a professional player. I play on Sundays in the Rec League." But it's always a compliment that I get asked.

Tomorrow will be the fifth day in a row that I'll be at CSz. That's much more frequent than usual. Wednesday was the benefit, and I worked Thursday through Saturday. And tomorrow is the Rec League. I'm so excited about playing and hope I can use some of the good "stuff" I learned at the tournament.

9/9 Impulsive

Impulsive, but well-meaning—that’s how I’d describe myself right now. I filled out the paperwork to volunteer for two weeks with the Department of Health and Human Services. They need social workers, especially those with disaster/trauma experience.

I feel like I’ve just been twiddling my thumbs while others work. That’s a difficult feeling, when you know you have needed skills.

My schedule is really full between now and the end of the year, but there’s only two things I can’t/won’t cancel. So I’d be able to fit in the two weeks—that is if work lets me go “with pay.” I don’t have enough vacation time. But we’re a very charitable company. It really is a company with a huge heart. We’re giving to charity all the time—both money and staff resources. So I think they might “donate” my time by paying me while I’m gone (if I get accepted). That’s the only way I can do this.

Guess I should have thought this all out prior to filling out the forms, huh? But then I wouldn’t have been impulsive, and the title of this blog entry would be a lie. And we wouldn’t want that, would we?

9/8 Benefit

CSz Milwaukee held a benefit last night for Second Harvest, with all the money going to the relief efforts down south. Unfortunately the turnout was small. Our intentions were good and they sure marketed the heck out of it, but it was very short notice. Perhaps their next one will get more attention.

Anyway, since the turnout was small, those of us who were in the Rec League got to participate in some of the games. It was a “slam” rather than a CSz match. A number of games, and any player could jump in when he/she wished. It’s my sad duty to write that I SUCKED! I only spoke in probably two games, and each one was pitiful. Don’t know what was wrong. But anyway, I’m glad I got it out of the way, so maybe I won’t be so sucky on Sunday at the Rec League.

9/7 Friends, etc.

9/7 Friends, etc.

Received a call from a friend I hadn’t spoken to in months. She lost her job in June and I just heard about it. It was difficult, knowing I could have been there for her but didn’t have the information to do so. She’s probably my only friend who didn’t have email. She has it now, and I’m grateful. It will be easier to stay up to date. It’s amazing though how much we rely on email and text to communicate, and how wonderful it was to talk to a far-away friend and hear the warmth in her voice.

Other tidbits: I’m in frequent touch with some young friends from New Orleans. It warms my heart that in the midst of everything, they contact me. Oh shit, I’m tearing up.

Even though the activation didn’t take place with one company I contract with, I’m now in touch with another company that has lots of people mobilized to the N.O. area. My training and education is suited for the site work, so am waiting to hear if they need me. Just heard yesterday that one of our workers here is in N.O. volunteering. She’s one of our “travelers,” so I don’t see her much anyway. Her absence is normal. But when I heard this, I thought—that’s just like her. She probably went down on her own and is working. Good on you, girl.

Tonight ComedySportz Milwaukee is having a benefit performance. I'll do my small part. Hope they make tons of money.

9/6 It's a day, isn't it?

Back to work after three days off. Interesting phenomenon. I’m very energized and am accomplishing tons of work. First thing this morning a magazine editor called, wanting to do an interview. I contacted our President (who was at an airport) and she’ll do the interview tomorrow. Got a handle on other projects too.

I’m officially “off call” now. The feds didn’t activate the call center. I’m disappointed since it was a tangible way I could help. We’ve heard from most of the N.O. group and at least four of them have landed in Austin TX, where they plan to remain. These young improvisers, comedians and actors want to continue practicing their craft. The CSz theatre in N.O. is gone (according to the owner). What a devastating blow. This woman had finally gotten the enterprise up and running—and it disappeared in a second. She’s grateful to be alive, as are we all. It’s not my place to share details of her life, but there are so many other things going on as well. So stressful. So traumatic.

I hear from some of my young N.O. friends via IM and email and every message is a gift.

9/5 I'm boring.

Still no call to be activated.

A quiet day. I swam laps in the morning for 1/2 hour and did laundry. Loaded pictures from the CSz World Championship onto my website. Worked on some Christmas presents (I have a huge family and buy all year). That's about it.

Boring, I know. But truthful.

9/4 Ugh...

I still haven't received the activation call. The only reason I'm pissed is that I gave up working at CSz Friday night and Saturday night in order to do this. There's still tomorrow. Anytime after that I'd have to take days off from my regular job. We'll see.

Today a friend and I created a forum for our friends who are serious about getting healthy. We're just setting it up right now, but I think it's going to be cool.

Heard from Rob today. He and Beata are in Hawaii at Hickam AFB. That's where they're starting their adventure. Nearly everything he mentioned that they planned to do were things I'd done when we lived there. I'm so happy for them getting this great belated honeymoon.

Plus it's always good to hear from one of my kids.

9/3 Not waiting...

Not waiting by the phone...I'm taking the phone with me. Went out for breakfast this morning and then spent a couple of hours by the pool. Took my cell phone both places, and took my cordless to the pool. It works out there. But still no activation to work for the hurricane victims.

They said it would be yesterday or today most likely. It's still today, so we'll see. Maybe if I start playing some online poker the phone will ring. :)

9/2 Memorable Day

Thirty-eight years ago today I married Phil. There’s some nostalgia when I think about it. That 20 year-old girl with stars in her eyes was soon introduced to reality. Not that everything was bad during our 10 ½ year marriage. But there were some times I don’t want to remember. The good things? Living in Hawaii. Adopting Rob there and Jill in Georgia. That wouldn’t have been possible if it weren’t for Phil’s army career.

He’s now been married for 25 years to Sandy. I’m happy for them.

And now onto current news. Like most people, I’m saddened and repulsed by what’s happening on the Gulf Coast. I can’t believe people are suffering so much. It seems like such a simple thing to give them food and water. Yet there are other people shooting at those who try to help. Hard to understand. But people’s response to trauma differs. Some are frozen, in shock. Others vent their anger in dangerous ways.

I’m on call to be activated to assist (as a therapist, on the phone). It will feel good to be able to help. Some friends and I were just talking about wanting to help, and the helpless feeling we have during tragedies. Of course we give money. But we want the feeling of doing tangible stuff—working. So I’m very grateful I’ll have the opportunity to do that.

Another tangent: My son and daughter-in-law left today from Japan to go on a vacation to Hawaii. I’m so happy for them. But my d-i-l sent me a beautiful note that held instructions on what to do in the case of her death. It was very detailed and well-thought-out. I’m touched that she trusts me to handle everything. On the other side—I hate to think of anything happening to them on the best vacation of their lives. They have so much planned. And since my son is Samoan (Polynesian), they’ll fit right in with the locals (kamaina).

I wish them a beautiful and romantic trip.

9/1 Musings

Being on the ComedySportz forum is always fun after tournament. So many people post who normally don’t. This time though it’s a little different. We all met (and loved) the team from New Orleans. We’ve now heard from all of them, but we’re still concerned. For most, their lives will never be the same. They’ve not only lost houses and possessions, they’ve lost jobs too. So far, none have lost loved ones, which is a real blessing.

I switched from IE to Mozilla Firefox today at work. I’ll see whether I think it’s better or not. But already I see one benefit—I can put RSS feeds onto my toolbar. That’s very cool.

Talked to Jill and the kids today. As always, it was so cool. Kayla was excited because today was going to be Green Day at kindergarten. Everyone would wear green and read Green Eggs and Ham. She said, “I’m not going to eat any of that.”

Hunter was all excited because, “Daddy got a new dirt bike it’s a Honda I’m going to get a Honda when I grow up when I get my training wheels off my bike I’m going to take Dad for a ride on it when I’m a big boy…(takes breath)…well I love you Grandma and I’m coming to see you in October on an airplane will you pick me up at the airport wait Aunt Jane will pick me up bye Grandma I love you.” (Sounds of him kissing the phone.)

Can you see why I love talking to them?

8/31 Food

Here’s the menu from the party on the yacht (8/29). No wonder I gained weight. Since there weren’t a ton of vegetarian options, I ate a lot of caramel pecan brie, chocolate and pineapple upside down cake. Yum. Oh, and normally I drink one or two beers and that’s it. I think I built up a tolerance because I drank two cosmos on the boat and two ladykillers at Joanne’s house afterward. Yum again. (I wasn’t driving.)

The party menu: Tropical Pineapple Palm Tree Fruit Display - Cascading Mixed Fruits Displayed in Shell Bowls Served with a Rum Dipping Sauce; Warm Caramel Pecan Brie
Tray Passed Hors d’oeuvres Smoked Turkey Radicchio Rolls; Crab Cakes Served with Mango & Papaya Salsa
Exhibition Station Coconut Shrimp
DINNER Fresh Papaya Spinach Salad With Gorgonzola Cheese and Walnuts; Broccoli Bacon Salad; Caribbean Chicken With Spinach and Goat Cheese in Roasted Red Pepper Sauce; Shredded (Pulled) Kahlua Pork; Jasmine Rice With Dried Cherries and Fresh Cilantro; Chili Relleno Quiche
Exhibition Station Fried Plaintains; Assorted Breads and Butter including Cuban Bread, Banana and Zucchini Breads, Cornbread Muffins and Pineapple-Coconut Muffins
Desserts Pineapple Upside Down Cake; and of course the chocolate fondue

Coffee Service Buffet

The entire 10 days were superb. Usually at the end of a vacation I want to come home, this time I didn’t. I could have stayed in SoCal for a long time.

8/30 Back to reality

8/30 Back to reality

In many ways I’m glad to be home.

But in most ways—not so much. I loved my latest trip to SoCal so much and find it hard to face the reality of too much stuff on my desk, etc.

Surrounded by so much comedic talent is energizing and inspiring. I met a lot of new folks as well as connected with old friends. Some new folks: the New Orleans gang—fun, young, talented, and gorgeous; wonderfully crazy Erica from Chicago; Mary Pat, Margie, Brandon, Tony, and Angela from Portland (added to the Portland crew I already know and love); Dallas folks—Jill, Evan, Eric, Von (hubba hubba) and Misty (okay, hubba hubba for you too—okay, for all of you lovelies); Houston friends, even though I saw you for a short time in Milwaukee, this was the first time I’d seen you at tourney—and Troy, thanks for watching the Sat. shows with me; Buffalo Kevin who saved a shuttle spot for me and Buffalo Tim with his innocent looks; and the LA team members that I’d met for the first time, Myles, Cory, and I forgot the name of the College Team gal who could have been my daughter; New York players Caprice (a licensed clinical social worker like me), Rory and Stephanie; crap, I shouldn’t have started this list because it’s never-ending. I’ll write more later…

(Note to those who asked: My knee is much, much better. I took a cab instead of walking the last two days and there’s a definite improvement. Now to get rid of the five pounds I gained.)

8/29 Gorgeous day on the yacht

I'll fill in the details later. But Joanne's and Lynn's birthday party on the yacht in Newport Bay was a delight from start to finish. Must catch a plane now....

Later:

My friend, Bruce, picked me up at the hotel about 10:15 AM and we headed to Orange County. He's from Santa Barbara so had already been driving quite a while. What a sweetie to give me a ride.

We arrived at the yacht at just the right time, got our nametags and were allowed to board. Both of us thought that we could get used to living like this. Joanne and Lynn arrived and also our friends Debbie and David and the party began. The drinks and food were so very good that I know it's how I gained 5 pounds while I was gone. The music, delivered by a steel drum band, was unbelievable. We danced a lot.

We sat with an old neighbor of Joanne's (Nur, from Turkey) and his wife/girlfriend/lady love? who knows... But he was so funny, acted like a realtor, giving us the prices of all the homes we passed in Newport Bay and Balboa Island. Kept me laughing.

I'll get the menu from a post Joanne made on our writing bb as soon as I can find it. Unbelievable.

After four hours of delightful cruising we went to Joanne's home. I've raved about it before, but again--LOVE IT. Gorgeous, yet very comfortable. We sat out by the pool while Bruce and Lynn serenaded us with their guitars. Joanne's sisters-in-law are a stitch and I'd love to spend more time with them. Donna and Marie...lovely. Marie was especially interested in ComedySportz. They all live in Rochester NY and I hope they'll be able to attend a show in Buffalo.

After a fantastic day, Bruce dropped me back at the hotel in Hollywood where I had to pack and reminisce.

8/28 Surrounded by talent

Wow. I'm surprised Hollywood didn't explode with all the talent that resided here this week.

Went to breakfast at Sherry's with Rachel, Ste, Steven, and Jill H. Great and cheap--the food, not us.

Then the usual pool gathering. But even more CSz'ers graced the area and I believe at one point the funny people may have outnumbered the beautiful people. We did see Rachel Hunter numbered among the B.P. and I swear I saw Bruce Willis, but was outvoted. Brandon from Portland agreed with me.

I stayed at the pool most of the day until it was time to get ready for dinner prior to going to the Iver Theatre for the final matches. A bunch of us ate at the Thai restaurant (me for the third time) because it's both cheap and delicious.

The word was that the shows were pretty close to sold out, so Troy (Houston) and I bought tickets for both shows. Turned out that all the tournament folks were able to be seated after all, but we didn't regret our decision since we had superb seats.

8 PM match: Chicago vs San Jose and Milwaukee vs Portland. And the 10:30 championship match was home team Los Angeles vs Houston. That made Troy doubly glad he had a good seat.

More later on the after party (fun) and the lack of sleep (not so much). Today I'm off to Newport Beach to frolic on a yacht for the day with friends to celebrate Joanne's and Lynn's birthdays.

8/27 We're in the LA Times

This is very cool....

http://www.calendarlive.com/stage/cl-et-improv27aug27,2,6232707.story

And there's even a picture of me.

Ready when you are, C.B.

8/26 Catching up, but not on sleep

Oh my, I'm tired. Got to bed at 3:30 AM and up at 8 to swim. But let's go back to yesterday....

Up early and met a bunch of people at the pool around 9. It is absolutely decadent to be sitting there or swimming while other people work. I could get used to this.

After a few hours I went for lunch with Rachel, Steven, Ste (all Chorley UK), Evan and Jill (Dallas) to IHOP. Rachel wanted to try pancakes. I think she liked them.

Steven and I then waited for the shuttle to take us to our workshop. We waited in the wrong place. Luckily Kris (Philadelphia) gave us a ride. At CSz, Phil Ward (LA) taught Film Styles. Informative and fun. We got lots of stage time as we practiced the various styles. Got a very thorough handout too.

Then to the Stella Adler theatre for Casting for the Commercial. Michael Donovan, a casting director, taught it. I learned SO MUCH. If I'd have had a head shot with me, I would have turned it in, like others did.

Went back to the Thai Restaurant with tons of people. Enjoyed the meal and the company.

Finally we had some SHOWS to watch. Richmond vs Minneapolis, Buffalo vs Philadelphia,Dallas vs New York, and Chorley vs New Orleans. All the matches were hilarious. Celebrity judges were Julia Duffy from Newhart and Designing Women, Debra Wilson from MADtv, and Jamie Alcroft from TV's Comedy Break with Mack and Jamie.

Afterward the party moved to Big Wang's. Yep, that's the name of the bar. Of course I went. I'm not going to miss seeing what that's about.

It was a great bar. Big, dirty and open. A regular corner bar in the heart of Hollywood.

I got to bed at 3:30, as I said above. When I woke up at 8 I was still tired but knew that I wanted to swim. Heather (Chicago) got there about the same time. Kevin (Minneapolis) arrived shortly after, then later Betse (Portland) and Erika (Chicago) joined us.

Friends went to In and Out Burger for lunch. Steven, also known as Jools, from Chorley wanted to try it. So I walked to Hollywood and Highland Center and had a pretzel and water. Mmm-mmm good.

My first workshop was Auditioning for the Comedic Actor. Jason (forgot his last name, but I do have his card) taught it and it was EXCELLENT. We began by all of us getting a script and then going outside. He called us in one by one and we audtioned on tape. Afterward we went through some of the tapes, but time prevented us from looking at all of them. But we all got feedback, and we all got on stage and read aloud with others. Situation comedies require a lot more thought than I realized. I do know I sucked (my words, not Jason's). But got better as time went on.

Ended up having to skip Rick's Shakespeare class. My knee just isn't getting better and I needed to get off of it for a while. More later.